And various Droite screenshots.
I’m so excited for these games!! ♥♥♥
Both Cheren and Bianca look so adorable and the world tournament thing sounds fantastic!
I don’t usually speak about personal things, but this time I am in need of advice or even just an ear to listen to me. Or just knowing I am not alone in this. I’m not comfortable talking about this because nobody knows, and it’s a tricky subject but I need help. RL problems, this could get long….
I really wasn’t sure about re-bloging your personal issue, as I wasn’t sure if it was appropriate for me to do so, but the option to comment doesn’t have enough character space for me to say what I wish to.
First of all, I’m sorry to hear that you are in such a horrid situation and I’m glad you were able to get this out somewhere, which I think is most definitely a cry for help and hopefully the replies people are giving you will give you some strength to figure out the best course of action you need to take for YOU.
That said, I will give my honest opinion.
It sounds like both you AND him aren’t happy in this relationship and I use the word “relationship” very lightly as this doesn’t sound even a bit like how one is supposed to be. He’s treating you like dirt and to be honest, it’s sounding very mentally abusive. He’s trying to bring you down and make YOU feel like you are the one in the wrong, that YOU are a selfish and horrible person and that’s, of course, very VERY wrong of him to do.
If he can be made to realize there IS a problem and you both want to try and work hard to make this better, then things like couple counseling and your boyfriend most likely needing some kind of counseling himself (Anger-management maybe?) is the only way you can even attempt to better it. If he gets upset, angry and doesn’t want to know, or doesn’t think there is a problem to fix, then I’m sorry but there really isn’t anything worth salvaging.
Even though splitting with him would bring up more complications, you may have to ask if it’s really all worth being unhappy staying in a relationship which honestly has the possibility of becoming a lot worse than it is now if nothing is done. This I see being a time bomb. He maybe just getting angry easily now, but that could very easily turn into physical abuse if nothing is done. He’s already threatened you. That isn’t something someone jokes about. Trust your instinct that he may of meant it, because it could very well be true.
If splitting seems like the best option, it might be best to make a plan on what you can do to combat the difficult situations that it may bring about before you do so, just so that you’re prepared. You might lose some things you’d really like to keep, but if you’re prepared, then the fallout may not be as hard. You may have to take some steps back for a while, but you WILL get back on your feet and you will move forward. You should not have to take any kind of abuse from anyone.
But sadly, in short, I think you shouldn’t stay in the relationship. If he’s making you cry almost every day, making you fear to talk to him or bring things up to him, trying to make you feel terrible and turning everything you say around to make it so, then that is not a relationship, that is him being an abusive jerk.
My advice is for you to find a way out as soon as possible, before it has the chance to get worse, because if nothing at all is done, it WILL get worse.
